Understanding Purple Crying: Why Some Babies Cry More Than Others
Many parents are surprised by how much babies can cry during the first few months of life.
For some babies, there may be periods of prolonged crying that seem difficult to explain or soothe. This stage is often referred to as Purple Crying.
Understanding what is happening can help parents feel more confident and supported during this challenging phase.
What Is Purple Crying?
Purple Crying is a term used to describe a normal developmental stage where some babies cry more frequently and intensely than usual.
It does not mean your baby is sick or that you are doing anything wrong as a parent.
When Does It Happen?
Purple Crying often:
Begins around 2 weeks of age
Peaks around 6–8 weeks
Gradually improves by 3–4 months
Every baby is different, and some babies experience it more intensely than others.
Why Does It Happen?
The exact cause is not fully understood.
Researchers believe it may be related to:
Brain development
Nervous system maturation
Increased awareness of the world
Normal developmental changes
What Can Parents Do?
While you may not always be able to stop the crying, you can provide comfort and support through:
Holding and cuddling
Gentle rocking
Skin-to-skin contact
Feeding if appropriate
Walking with your baby
Baby massage when your baby is calm and receptive
Remember that sometimes babies simply need support while they work through their emotions.
Looking After Yourself
Purple Crying can be exhausting and emotionally draining.
It is important to:
Take breaks when needed
Ask for support
Share caregiving responsibilities
Speak with your healthcare professional if you are concerned
Looking after yourself helps you care for your baby.
Final Thoughts
Purple Crying is a normal developmental phase that eventually passes. Although it can feel overwhelming, it does not mean you are failing as a parent.
The Gentle Hands Baby Massage & Wellness app provides practical guidance, developmental information and tracking tools to help parents better understand their baby's patterns during the early months. Gentle Hands Baby Massage classes also offer a supportive environment where parents can learn calming techniques, connect with other families and build confidence in responding to their baby's needs.